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writes: I am pretty embarrassed about this so that is why I am writing anonyumously. I am 22 and for the last three years, up to two months ago, I'd been living with my bf but now we have split up and he has moved out. He hasn't left me pregnant or given me any STD or anything but we were pretty adventurous in our lovemaking and he got me making milk. Now I know that when he left I should have weaned myself and I did try but my boobs got so painful it was easier to express myself, as I had been doing at work when we were together, rather than stop so I am still making milk. Anyway, I have just, in this last week, got a new bf and the other night he was working me up and I suddenly had to stop him because I knew that if I orgasmed I would squirt milk. I wanted to make love to him but I did not dare and I am sure he is now wondering why not. If I start weaning myself again my boobs will fill and I certainly could not then let him squeeze them or, worst of all, suck on them, without the danger of releasing milk and if I don't let him touch me, how long will I keep him? What should I do?
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reader, Canuck49  +, writes (23 August 2008):
this can really turn allot of men on and I know for a fact that this is a good thing to do for a woman.Most Doctors will tell you that this can be a good thing for a mother that is breast feeding her child and for the husband not to be embarrasses or the mother as her body will produce more than enough milk.I really enjoyed this part of sex when my wife was breast feeding.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2006): Thankyou for all your answers. I wasn't seeing the wood for the trees but, of course, all I need to do is to get some 'dry up' pills from my Doctor. For information, if your partner sucks on your breasts the right way very often and you work them yourself when he is not around, then you will make milk - you do not have to get pregnant
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reader, Rainee +, writes (8 February 2006):
 If it's like regular breastmilk, the leaking will continue as long as the body feels a need to produce it - as long as it thinks a baby is feeding, in other words, as long as you make it come out. Your expressing your milk only further exacerbates your problem. If you stop immediately, your breasts will "dry up" within a matter of days, or it could take two weeks - it's different for everyone. It can be a very painful process, but once it's over, you shouldn't have to worry about sexual romps anymore.
As for your bf, you could try being a little too busy for however long you need to dry up, or you could come clean about it (I only recommend that if you think he wouldn't be grossed out by the thoughts of you and your ex doing stuff).
If it doesn't clear up within a couple of weeks, DEFINATELY see a doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2006): I have heard about women lactating, in regards to "phantom pregnancies" but usually in order to leak breast milk, I have always been under the impression you have to have a baby, first. Have you ever been pregnant? Did you and your bf experiment with hormones? I would check with a doctor on this one! I have breastfed my children and if I recall, prolactin is the natural hormone that lactating mothers have to produce breast milk, but after a baby is born. I am worried, it could be a sign of other troubles. Check with your GP, please.
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reader, llqueen +, writes (7 February 2006):
How did getting adventerous in your lovemaking make you start releasing milk?
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reader, magpie4786 +, writes (7 February 2006):
the only advice is you should see a doctor about it cause they probably know what's going on and how to fix it. but in the meantime good luck
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