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I can please my gf but she can't please me, anyone else been in this situation?

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Question - (2 July 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 July 2009)
A male Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

so my girlfriend i have sex everyday and after it we just lay in bed for a bit and then she will jerk me off and blow me the problem is its feels great but i don't burst for her and she gets upset and i feel really crappy about it i can please her but she cant please me at all is there anyone who's experienced this

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2009):

I would have to say that you talk to her about this..tell her things that you really like a girl to do, dont laugh but even role playing can spark something up..or if you want to get a llittle extreme, do it in places you are not supposed to..any little thing like that can spark a moment...the best thing you can do is talk to her, tell her whats happenening and tell her what you want, and then you can both have fun

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2009):

Hi,

I will try to help here. Have you ever felt that burst of whatever it is with anyone at all? If you have not then it could be either one of two things: you are too tense and can not bring yourself to let go and be a male slut and enjoy the sex or I hate to say this but she just isn't doing it for you.I have been in relationships where I really liked the guy, he was nice and all but the sex thing, no matter what just wasn't there. No torch fire, no wreckless abandon type animal passion. You know what I mean. I have come to believe that for a relationship to survive you need this passion. If you do not have this, you will die young if you deprive yourself.

Good luck!

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