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writes: please someone help me, when I go to have sex I can only do it when the girl is on top, i have only done it once and i was perfectly sober but we first tried standing up but i couldnt do it then with me on top we tried for at least 15mins just to get started but it wasn't for happening, she was saying i was in but i dont think i was because i couldnt feel a thing. is this normal for a guys first time? im worried i wont be able to pull a girl cause im to afraid to have sex. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2006): Don't draw too many conclusions if you've only tried it for the first time! You don't need to use those other positions if they don't work for you (you may still want to trot to them out for your partner's benefit). Sex can be pretty goddamned tricky if you're looking for exactly the right angle and friction for both partners, so experiment until you find what you like best. You've already established the woman on top is good for you, take anything else that works and discard the rest. Practice, practice, practice.
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