A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have deep feelings for a guy I met a year ago. We met in person but is one of those cases where you wish it could been more if it wasn't b/c he had to leave shortly since he is an active duty airman. So, we communicate via email. What started as a keeping in touch, then grew in what I believe fonder since we share thoughts, jokes, pics from trips we make, etc. We are friends and enjoy our friendship, but I develop feelings for him. We've been in contact even in his deployments.I would like to go visit, but if he doesn't give me a signal that he wants me there I won't say a word. But I called him after so long. He was very excited and sounded sweet and caring, soft talking. I recalled him not being like that when we met.I said I was glad to hear him again and he said he was too. It was nice to hear the voice of a long time friend. I told him I would like him to come back and it would be nice it he could. He said it would be nice too. I said I would call him when I have a chance and the discount from my job ( I work in a phone company) and he said OK. He then say "Talk to you soon". I would like to believe he said those things b/c he means them not out of politeness. Should I believe him? Please tell me what from your experience or point of view is going on here? Reply to this Question
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 I don't think anything "is going on" I think he's being straight with you. He sounds like he genuinely cares for you and I would try to meet him as soon as you can that, I think, Would let you know if anything can/will happen between you :-)Good Luck
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