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30-35,
*heerwhore23
writes: So I like an incoming sophomore. I'm an incoming senior. He's only a year younger than me though, since I'm a grade higher than I should be. Anyways we were talking and stuff and things were going great! We were at our state champion party (our baseball team won state;) just btw) and this girl that he use to be in love with was there. Now not trying to be conceited or anything but I MADE this girl..she was a nobody before I met her..anyways she tells me that Im not allowed to date this boy because I'll hurt him..even though she broke his heart AND has a current bf. Well at this point everyone is already drunk so I started hanging out with my best guy friend. He was with this girl all night and they left together. She texted me his morning pretty much bragging that she ruined us. He ignored me this morning at track practice and when I talked to him about it he said that I was all over my guy friends which I wasn't, and that we should just be friends for now cuz of what happened...I was really upset because I actually thought things were gonna work with us..I feel like I got screwed over and he feels like he did..idk what to do..I still want him back.! Is it even worth it? Help please:/
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (11 June 2011):
HI
well my guess is , is that if this guy was quick to believe this girl, without talking to you then he is not worth it. Some people you just cant help, and this girl has obviously took being a nobody as you say to a somebody very seriously, and is not about to let anyone get in her way.Maybe you should think twice before using a human being as a project to get better status next time!!
In the meantime, this girl is not worth worrying about, two can play her game after all !! I would ignore the both of them, dont let them see it has got to you, and when he comes to you ( which he will ) tell him what happened, but say its ok, if you want to believe people before talking to me your not worth it,and walk away . he will then see your serious about this, and start to think twice about this other girl, and see her for what she really is a liar :) before you know it, he will be there for the taking, and this girl will realise some shoes she cannot fill :D xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011): Woah there mean girl....can't help you with the situation...but I do have a comment and suggestion.
You don't "MAKE" anyone. She becomes whatever she chose to be. Calling her a nobody shows incredible bitchiness and jealousy. Please get over yourself.
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