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writes: My mom set me up to meet this guy that has began working at her job. It just so happened that they met and found out that they were both alumnus of the same college and mom told him that I also just graduated from that school, so she though we ought to meet because I was not fammiliar with him. so we met and it seem so crazy because he is from a whole other state and at my moms company he is friends with two guys that I know. one guy I went to 9th and 10 grade with in high school and the other I went to 11th and 12th grade with at another high school. I am not sure what to do the sign are there like his license plate is my birthday, we are the same sign, we graduated from college on the same day and never knew eachother, we enjoy some of the same things, and I prayed for someone like him. I don't know what to do he does not believe in fate. I want o get get close to him and he seems so hard to reach. I want to be in love and I think Ive found it am I losing it or am I just that desperate that I made a all this stuff make sense to my life? Reply to this Question
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (9 February 2006):
 Sometimes when you have a strong desire for a relationship with someone, you can start to see all sorts of Signs and Portents in every day situations and you can convince yourself that it's Fate.
But "We're fated to be together" is very hard to prove and even more difficult to persuade another person to believe. In fact, it can be a little creepy when someone starts pointing out car-licence plates and friends of friends, etc. Those things aren't Fate, they're coincidences. (If you don't believe me, here are the digits of my birthday: 2412. If you really look, you'll find that pattern at least once, somewhere. Does that mean anything? Nope, it doesn't.)
So take your time with this guy. Leave off the amazing Omens and Prognostications and focus on whether this person likes you, and how you really feel about him. Those are facts, and those are a lot easier to deal with.
When you ease up the pressure on both him and you, you'll find that your natural personality will be what he sees. Then you can both decide whether this is a good match or not.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2006): You sound desperate. Calm down and just let thing progress as they will.It sounds more like fate didnt want you to meet.
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