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writes:Does this sound normal to you? I used to be so excited for college but now I'm anxious because I've had anxiety about my sexuality for 2 years now. I have always been attracted to boys in a romantic and sexual way but I also have been very turned on by lesbian porn, and boobs which I know is completely normal.But now, I read stories about how girls like don't even wear clothes in front of their roommate and I don't know if I want that .If I'm afraid that I'll get turned on or something or if it just makes me uncomfortable. Does anyone else feel this way or am I the only one? Is this normal or does it mean I'm hiding something deep down which I feel like I'd know? I'm so confused and just want this to go away if anyone can help I would really appreciate it.Seriously, I really do believe I'm straight or just bi curious, but what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2015): You just say to your roomate "Honey put those knockers away ..not on display!" Make a joke out of it! You wont turn into a rampant raving lesbian at the sight of her watermelons (if she has them) because it is a non porn enviroment. You may share a room but you will use the toilet and bathroom separately and privately.If she insists on changing in front of you with random swinging knockers say something like "Put those bangers away before they hit me in the eye." Also feel free to look the other way, to concentrate on your iphone and to face away from the changee.You sound far too shy and a little insecure to become a rampant, raving anything.You just come across as a little self obsessed and possibly traumatised by what youve seen as boobs because you doubt yourself so why dont you ask your favourite doctor to book you some free counselling for anxiety disorder so that you can feel internally more secure before college as something is clearly worrying you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (6 September 2015):
 I think you have written the same post for months, once a week, and you STILL don't know that labeling yourself is NOT necessary for you to live a happy life.
Statistics say that 5-7% are gay, bisexual, asexual, pan-sexual etc. Which means when you go to college you will NOT be the only one who isn't 100% straight.
When you go to college, maybe JOIN the LGBT and you will see that you are not the only one who is confused or unsure - but.. you will also see that you are NOT the only one who feels that way.
Some people are "gender fluid" some a "sexually-fluid". As it it's NOT so much about gender, but HOW that person makes you feel.
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