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writes:hiya, i have a really bad problem.i like this boy, and problem is he don't like me in that way,i've been out with him before and it dint really work out, but i really like him and he says he's not ready for any relationships yet please help me xbut i have a feeling that is we have another chance together it will work out. Reply to this Question
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reader, broken-hearted +, writes (22 March 2008):
thank-you for all your answers..
it has helped.. that boy i had liked. i found out the other day that he liked me in that same way 2 so now we are girlfriend and boyfriend thankyou so much..
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reader, Skeez +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Hello hun.
I know how difficult it is to feel like this. My boyfriend recently dumped me, but I still love him and want him back, but i dont think hes ready for a relationship either and the thread looks thin. But that doesnt mean its going to happen to you deffinetly aswell.
You should respect his needs and stop hoping that you will go back out, becuase in the long run, if you two dont get back together, you will feel even more worse, reminding yourself that you had all these hopes and they have just been crushed.
Give him some space and perhaps not having contact for a while will help. Get yourself out with your friends and keep yourself occupied. Im guessing at your age, your either doing GCSE's, at college or Sixth Form. So this is the time for you to concentrate on your future. Im doing the same and its really helping me not remind myself of my ex.
If you two do get back together, perhaps just start of as dating casually. Like friends with benefits. Still have your days out with each other, but dont revolve your whole world around him. Men arnt everything. Also if you keep yourself busy, it will make him see that you are independant and you will be able to tell yourself that after a while. I used to be so shy and had no confidence what so ever and i thought I couldnt possibly live without my boyfriend, but I really can and I have.
Just occupy yourself and have fun.
If it was meant to be then you will get back together. If not, then theres plenty more fish in the sea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): What sort of word is fructify? Lol never heard it before now in my life.. :] It sounds to me as though you've just got to wait and let these feelings pass - it didn't work out in the past, and you can't make anyone love you honey. It's bound to be tough, I understand that, but if it's meant to be then its meant to be. A chance will come along. But if its not, then there's someone else out there for you honey. Good luck.
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