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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This is going to sound strange But I hate seeing my ex's or people I like snogging my friends It really hurts me. I know I,m a very very very Jealous person when it comes to fella's but it upsets me. When one of my friends fancies a guy and I fancy them too I back down and let them get on with it. I thought mabye they'd do it for me.Recently I was at a house party and I fancied this guy but my best friend fancies him too. I backed down again and Its getting me jealous I,m always jealous of this and I know i shouldnt be because whats meant to be will find a way but I dont know what to do anymore I need help :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): hey there,
Well in thi situation it depends, did you fancie this guy because you felt a genuine connection or because your friend did? If you liked him for real it's not fair that you back down because its a two way street: your friend would have to back down too. My friend ended up liking the same guy and they went out, thing is he liked us both. I did what you did at first, tried backing down, but she messed him about and i loved him too much. Like i said, it's a two way street and wouldnt be fair on anyone.
Put it this way, if he came and asked you out and you rejected him who's to say he would ask your friend? He might have liked you but had no feelings towards your friend, so there's your heart and his broken. Stay true to who you love.
If you like him just because your friend does though it might be wise to back off a little bit, but if he likes you and not your friend I would consider talking to her if you feel unsure.
Good Luck and Hope you find your guy ;)
SMJie x
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