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writes: Hello,Im a very frustrated 49 years old guy right now.Im married 22 years ago,and I love my wife.But I have a serous sex problem. I cant stay erect,and also I have no sexual desire,and on the top I have premature ejaculation,and it goes on now quite sometimes.I went to -doctors-sex therapist-psychiatrist.But none could diagnose me. And tell,why is that .It is so complex,because of low sex drive ,Viagra is not working.I took testosterone,even my hormones are ok.but it didn't help.I also tried wellbutrin,what doesn't interfere with sex drive,but no result.My doc says ,its must be some psychological issue,but he does not know what.My wife is losing it,she used to be very patient,but it wrecks my marriage.I wonder if anybody has the same problem,or can tell me what to think.I only care about people who has no medical reasons,as it is very different issue.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): An other thing! Maybe You should see a psychologist,and try to figure it out with his help,where is the problem. Sometimes,it is very difficult to know what goes on in our own subconscious.It could take some time, but you dont`t have a choice,if you want to treat this situation with love and respect.Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): My husband did this for years, before he finally came out from the closet...its called denial.There is always a cause.Please respect your wife ,and yourself with finding the correct answer,and take responsibility.!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): There has to be a cause! Everything does! It is or in your feeling,or in your body! It is not right with your wife,not to know the real cause! Work hard on it to find it.Do you spend enough quality time together? You dont want to lose a long marriage do you? Do your part!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): I totally agree,with Aunty BimBim .This has to be you. Are you honest with yourself? Maybe you are hiding something from yourself. Yes,it is hard to believe that you have no health problem,and you have no health problem... It is very fishy,my friend. Take a good look at your inner world,you might find something there.Maybe you are in denial.Is she good looking? Do you find it easy to touch her? Maybe you just dont fancy her? Did she take good care of herself? Are you angry? Ask yourself this questions.Desire does not go away for no reason.You know ,what I mean!
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reader, pyan  +, writes (4 July 2010):
hi
the same as happend to me. i found if my wife talked dirty or spoke about fantasies ect i would get hard. i even went to see prostitute. you are normal relax a bit and try intoducing some toys to get her off. my wife found if i was close or held her tight whilst using a dildo it wasn't as good but she felt ok. you can pm if you want more thoughts on it good luck
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (4 July 2010):
 I find it difficult to beleive none of the specialists you have listed have been able to help you.
I suggest you go back to your doctor and ask for a referral to somebody else.
Of all the professionals you have listed I am sure at least one of them was able to put forward a theory and suggest a monitored approach to your problem. Go back and ask them all for a second opinion.
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