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writes: I am 20 years old and have been in 2 serious relationships both lasting over 2 and a half years each. I have been single for 9 months now. I have had 3 one night stands in this time but nothing serious. I started getting involved with this guy but as soon as things started looking like they where getting serious i backed off completely. I thought this was just because i didnt want to get involved just because of the type of person he was. We are still close friends but nothing more. I have recently been seeing another guy but as soon as things started getting serious i backed out again. I think this may be because i am not yet over my ex boyfriend and want him back. Or it may just mean that i should stay away from men for a while. Please help?! What do you think i should do?!
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (13 December 2005):
 After two such long relationships I think the smartest thing you can do is keep it casual for a while. You are probably still healing from your last relationship and need some time to yourself. Don't rush into another relationship and when the time is right you will not feel the need to run when things atart to get serious.
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