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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Heyyy. So my boyfriend and I have been having sex for a few months. The thing is I don't really like it. I mean, everything but the actual sex is great. I assume it's supposed to be fun and feel great...but it doesn't. My boyfriend says it feels good to him - so what am I doing wrong? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (18 March 2011):
The ugly truth is that sex just isn't that great for a significant number of teenage girls. It takes time (years)and practise to get it right. Your young partner needs more experience, and you need to get know your own body better. So you can show him and tell him what you like.
As for your bf's comment, "it feels good to him".
Well, he is right it usualy does feel pretty darn good to a teenage boy. No matter how long it lasts. That is why most teenage girls keep doing it. Not for themselves, but for their boyfriends.
But the really sad part is that many women have confided to me, that they had their first child, before they had their first orgasm.
Kind of makes you wish you had never started doing it some times doesn't it?
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