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writes:There's this guy who i used to go to school with when i was at primary school and i liked him for the last two years of it. then we left for different seccondary schools and i rarely saw him but everytime i did i realised that i still felt something for him. i've only ever talked to him twice when i was nine but we kind of haven't talked since. another thing i should probably tell you is that i'm quite shy and i think that without realising it i've kind of had this barrier up that's probably the main reason that he's hesitated to talk to me since. and another thing you should know is that both of our dad's are friends with each other and a few months ago his dad told mine that he actually does like me. but that's where the problem started. shortly after i found that out i was having quite a few problems that i wasn't dealing with very well. it was baisicly like my life was falling to pieces and all i could do was watch. i just wasn't myself for a while. i was a mess. after a few months of trying to deal with all of the problems i decided to join facebook just to try to talk to him and was amazed to find that he had accepted my friend request. so i wrote a "hi how are you"message. hoping that he would just reply to me. and he kind of did in a way he just wrote on his wall "full of swagger". i just didn't know what to say to that really. so a few more weeks went by and i asked a friend of mine what he thought that i should do about it. and he just said to me that i just send a message to his inbox saying how i felt about him and that if he liked me then he would reply. so i took his advice and i wrote to him. i asked him if what is dad said was true(probably not a good thing to do though)then i said that i do like you but if you don't then that's fine. i was being as nice as possible in the message i kept it short. He didn't reply to the message although a few days later he wrote this on his wall "f***** hell don't take u long init ...seeen"and"was gonna come sooner or later..."and also"every1 was tellin me i was duin the wrong thing b4 all of this...if only i had listened". i didn't know what to say to that to be honest. so i don't exactly know what's going on with that. all i know is that one day he blocked me on facebook and then the day after he unblocked me. i think that he just dosent like me. but i just don't know what to do anymore. and if i see him around should i just walk on by and not say a word. or should i say something?
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (1 October 2009):
 Just walk on by and don't say anything. You've made your move and he hasn't responded. The ball is in his court. He should have replied, if even just to say he is flattered by not interested.
And don't presume the FaceBook comments on his wall are about you or for you. They have nothing to do with you. That's why they don't make any sense.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 October 2009):
Let this be a lesson that friendships through facebook are almost worthless. If this guy was really interested, he'd have said someting to your face. You'd be far better off finding a guy who knows what he wants and treats you respectfully. This guy doesn't sound like he knows what he wants and also sounds pretty immature. Find a better guy.
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reader, paddys wife +, writes (1 October 2009):
Oh dear sounds like this young man is also very shy and imature ,so next time you meet in person just smile say hi and leave it at that untill he grows up a bit ,by that time you may have lost interest in him anyway ,his loss i say PS keep dads out of your love life not a good idea !!!!
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