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writes:I just asked this girl out that I really think is the one. The problem is that she sadly said no. When she first said it I really did take it well. But now... It's starting to hurt more and more. She was really nice about it and we're still good friends but, I just cant stop thinking about her. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2010): i knw exactly how u feel im going thru a similiar situation except i dnt speak to my friend anymore. it hurt me so much that he just didnt get im inlove with him. i got upset and i think pushed him away. not to get into my story just tryn to make a point.. point is i know how bad it hurts BUT if u really cherish her as a friend hold on to your friendship,the pain will pass in time. now i knw that sucks but its all i got because if i could get my friend bak i would in a heart beat because now im hurting more without him in my life period and i dnt knw what to do no more to get him back!! one of the hardest things in life to me is to care for someone that doesnt feel the same back, really nothn no one can say will make it any better for your heart..they'll try to comfort you with words but the heart heals through time!! i hope u feel better, i truly do and i hope i helped u alittle..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2010): Move on and try another girl. Don't forget, it's the guy's job to ask ladies out; man is bound to fail more frequently than to succeed. More girls you ask, greater change you will have.
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (25 November 2010):
Sorry but you're just not the one for her right now. If its not too hurtful, continue to be a good friend to her, but not in a way that lets her walk all over you. I've seen many girls lead guys on to the point where they'd do anything for them. It gets them committed to them as if they're in a relationship, yet they get nothing in return.
Be kind to her, but be able to stand on your own as well. Show her that you're moving on and that there are no hard feelings about rejecting you (even if you have to fake it)
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