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writes:I've been feeling a little down recently over my girlfriend not inviting me out with her and she hasn't been spending an awful lot of time with me. This April she is going away one weekend with some friends and then the week after she is going on holiday for her birthday with her friends for a few days (i've not been invited to either event) but I thought fair enough, she wants time with her friends. Anyway for nearly a year now I have been asking her to come to London with me for a few days, she always uses the excuse she has no money. For her birthday last year she received some vouchers for a weekend in London to see lots of the tourist sites. She decided she was going to take the friend who gave her the tickets (fair enough)...her friends in the army and she can't go now because shes working, these tickets run out in around 2 weeks time. She still hasn't asked me to go with her yet? So I am very much assuming she has already asked someone else to go with her...do I have the right to be at all mad about this? Should I confront her?I know it sounds like a silly thing but she never really spends any time with me anymore and going to London with her would mean such a lot to me, and she knows that.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 March 2013):
 My first thought on reading this is, she is just not that into you.
Honestly, her FIRST choice of someone to bring to London for a few fun days should be you. (IMHO)Unless her friend is sharing the same birthday or something then MAYBE it would make a little sense for her to bring/share that with a friend over a partner.
Why not ask her, who are you bringing to London?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 March 2013):
 I'm sensing that your girlfriend is wanting out of the relationship but is not sure how to do it.
she's cutting you out of her birthday celebration, parties with friends etc...
NO it's not fair enough that she takes friends but not her partner.
If she never spends time with you, if she's vacationing without you, celebrating her birthday without you... I'd consider it over.
I can't imagine not taking my vacations with my spouse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWere both gay so that comment isn't really applicable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2013): No she has the right to invite anyone she wants except for another guy.... that means she is cheating
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