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writes: i been in a 4 year on and off relationship and now we are trying to work on being together again. my lover since then has become friends with her ex and now wants me to be ok ay with it . she has told me that i have nothing to worry about and that she dosent want to let our relationship go. before all of this at the begining of our first initial relationship, she told me that she was still in love with her ex and could =not love me fully because of her. also she told me that i was not a challenge to her like her ex was and that was one of the things that she liked about her ex. now that she is over her ex and is in love with me should i continue to be in this even though i cant forget what she has told me about her ex in the begining? to me its not about trust it is all about respect.please help im confused and i dont want to loose her.
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (8 October 2006):
Relationships are based on a lot of things but the main one is trust as if you dont have this you dont have much ground to work on. You obviously see this ex as a threat and you wish he would leave the picture completely but he never will as hes part of her past. Does she still have contact with her ex? You need to talk with your girlfriend let her know how much you love her and how special she is to you, and tell her what is going on in your head and how you are scared of losing her. Thats all you can do openly talk to her and let her know how special she is to you.
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