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writes: Is it true that opposites attract? My bf and I have been going out for a little over 2 years now, we are like any other teenage couple which has been going out for quite a while, and still like eachother very much even though we have both changed over the time we have been together. We are almost completely opposite, and this sometimes balances things out, but at other times, it can be really frustrating to not have someone who agrees with you on things very often or who has different ideas of what is to be expected by a gf/bf etc.So then comes guy#2. Hes also my age, and is also in a long term relationship with a girl, who is also one of my friends. I am close to both him and his gf, however over time have grown closer to him as friends. We help each other out with relationship problems, talk about friends, school, family, random silly things etc. You get the idea. Guy#1 i have known for so long, and had so many good times with, but it has really died down and the fights we get into happen again and again. I feel less appreciated by him than before, and usually feel like i like him more then he likes me (sorry if that sounds childish).With Guy#2, everything seems fresh again, and on top of that, we have so much in common, he makes me laugh, he appreciates things about me which guy#1 never does. I find myself going to sleep at night thinking about Guy#2 more than my bf....Do i have to choose? What do i do =/ ?Guy#2 has a gf! one of my friends! and lives much further away, but we talk alot more.Maybe i shouldnt even be considering it?!I dont want to cause trouble, but i dont know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 You could be falling for guy No.2 whether you think it will cause trouble or not.
You maybe living in denial.
If your guy No.1 is unsatisfactory and he does not change,
then you should consider moving on without him.
There are just too many pot holes on this road.
As to the guy no.2 , you can continue to be friends until he choose you over her .
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reader, carolinecooper  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 Hello :)
I think you need to do a list of Pros and Cons of the guys...sometimes it works to choose something.Life is really hard but your relation with the guy1 seems to be less interesting than with the guy2.It's difficult because guy2 isn't alone...Maybe you need to speak with guy2 and tell you've got a crush on him!!!Then,you'll see his reaction,maybe he loves you like a friend or maybe he loves you more than you think.Do you pass a lot of time with him? (i mean alone,without his GF)Is guy2's GF,your BFF?????
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