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I am too overcome to talk to him. So how can I find out if my crush has the same feelings as I do for him?

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Question - (7 October 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 7 October 2012)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have a crush on this guy but only thing I can do is smile every time I see him.

I can't even talk my words disappear from my mind I start shaking I don't know if he see me shaking but I feel it.

i can't see anything, or hear anything I just feel the butterflies swim in my stomach my feet and legs feel like jello .

I haven't seen him in a while, but when we do it's like love at first sight.

I wonder is his feeling the same as mine ? What goes through his mind when he sees me? I almost want him to marry me it would be a pleasure to wake up to man like him.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (7 October 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntI am sorry but nobody on here would be able to tell you if his feelings are the same for you or not, it is impossible to tell when you haven't even had a conversation with this man. Yes I can understand you feel like it is love at first sight but you are going a bit over board when saying you want to marry this man, at the end of the day you are basing your crush on looks alone, you need to get to know this man and see what his personality is like before you can make such suggestions.

Take it small steps at a time, start by saying hello to him when you smile at him, and build up your confidence slowly to talk to him. Just remember he is only another human being nothing terrible is going to happen if you start a conversation or ask him how he is.

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