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female
age
30-35,
*oftlipz
writes: I like this guy since May..he was in my class, we didn't really talk so i don't know why i just started liking him..thing is i ended up telling him and he said he has a girlfriend..but after he told me that; he would stare at me all the time then he would look away when i catch him..he even tried starting a convo with me on msn one time but i wasn't at my computer...so i thought i would get over him by summer, turns out my feelings are getting stronger and i have all these emotions bottled up inside of me and i want to let them out to him but i can't...we don't even have a relationship..i can't even talk to him on msn..that's how shy i am..i just don't what to do anymore..i'm so helpless..
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reader, shamrocks +, writes (15 August 2008):
i know exactly how you feel. he already has a girlfriend and i'm glad he told, this just shows that he is not some jerk that would've used your feelings as a way to get some meaningless sex out of you.if he does become available again then may be you could hook up, respect that he is in a relationship and try seeing other guys. you'll be surprised to see how much fun you can have instead of waiting around for someone that will maybe be available again. Go on enjoy life, you've still got alot to experience, you really don't need any MAYBE's in your life.
Good luck!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): Hi, it sounds like you like him a lot, but he already has a girfriend, but good thing is that you know that, and if you are smart, you know it wouldn't work... and be careful since he knows you like him, if he is a jerk, he could even use you for sex without liking you back. Plse don't hurt yourself and you should just let him go and hopefully, you'll find an available and better guy. Best wishes!
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