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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: The thing is, I'm starting to want to have sex with her, I can't resist it, shes gorgeous and sexy. I have spent time alone with her when I got to visit, and we have stayed talking for a time.I have helped some times in her house, too. I also have noticed that she watches me when I'm a little far(for example, a family party, she's in the living room and I'm in the table with my cousins), and when I look at her, she doesn't care.It has been times she tries to be more time alone with me, but something always interferes.She's 40 and divorced, what should I do?? I really think I feel to do something with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): I say that if she wants to do it as much as you do, go for it! The only thing is you will probably have to keep it a secret from the rest of the family, especially whichever parent of yours is her sibling. But if she's game and wants to have sex with you, I wouldn't look a gift horse in the mouth. Just be sure you make her promise not to tell anyone else about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): Just because she looks at you doesnt mean she wants to jump you. Maybe she's looking at you the way a mother would look at a child she's proud of. She's your blood relative for Christ's sake! You wouldn't bone your sister would you? Or your mother? Your aunt is no different! Everyone has crushes on people they can't have. I was in love with gym teacher in high school, and even now I'm attracted to my best friend's husband (which scares the hell out of me), but those things should never be acted upon. You've got to think about something else when she's around, and find yourself a woman who you don't share DNA with.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (15 August 2008):
Okay.... so you call her Aunt... what is her relationship to the family - mother's sister or father's sister??? If so maybe not such a good idea..... but if shes just a family friend who is called Aunt.. well then let her make the move on you.... Maybe she likes her men young.... But whatever you do remember to use a condom!!! But..... on the otherhand, maybe she watches you because she cannot believe how you have grown up...... and there is nothing sexual about her wanting to be with you......Honeygirl
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