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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now. Only 4 days ago she told me I was the one and she was so madly in love with me. Now all of a sudden she says she needs some "alone time" to figure out what she wants. She says she still loves me she just wants to think about it for a while. What happened? What should I do? I went to her house and told her how I feel and she was balling her eyes out the whole time, she said I was a perfect boyfirend and she still loved me, but she stuck to her guns. Is it over? Im so confused and hurt....Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, siren1  +, writes (31 October 2007):
 she sounds very confused to me maybe you should give her some time and dont push it she sounds like she does love you but ever thought she might have been let down in the past so she might be a bit frightened of it happening again reassure her but give her time!good luck
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reader, danny_zeco +, writes (31 October 2007):
She is in two minds as to what to do, i would just give it some time and wait for her to think about what she wants, tell her again how you feel, you will soon know after a while if she wants to continue or move on, either way its best to find out sooner rather than later.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): Sounds like a rare case of a woman not wanting to know your feelings?
Give her time alone, youve said how you feel. Maybe it wasn't what she expected.
Women cry for a variety of reasons, and there are even things called crocodile tears.
If she wants to continue she will.
Good Luck
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reader, rcn +, writes (31 October 2007):
 I want to know, who'd the competition that's trying to win her over. This sounds like someone who's confused with more than one opportunity, and trying to decide between the two.
I don't know if it's over or not, but I would ask her to be honest with what is going on.
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