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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am having a few issues with my partner, he is not very affectionate, he doesn’t just come up and cuddle me, he doesn’t just come up and give me a kiss.. I am always the one that needs to go up to him, he has told me he is shy and he has said this has how he has been brought up. I know I can’t change him… but I need some help on how to deal with this.The other night I was so upset with my partner and I, I was crying, he asked me to stop, I asked him instead of telling me to stop why don’t you roll over and cuddle me, or say that everything is going to be ok. I asked him how it made him feel seeing me cry, and he said he felt nothing… I know he loves me, I know he is caring, but he has trouble showing his feelings. How can I help him to start giving me the attention I want.. I am confused and very numb and heartbroken inside. Thankyou in advance… I really need your help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am engaged to him, and don't want to give up on him, everyone else has and I don't want to do that, all I am looking for is a few simple steps to help me.... does anyone have any?
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reader, xAx  +, writes (6 August 2010):
 It is very hard to change someone entirely, but what you are asking of him isn't much. He is a lazy person and won't do anything for you. Personally, i would leave him as you would only cause you more grief.
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