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writes: I am really scared of losing my girlfriend i really really love her this fear is really eating me up and causing it to become a belief it really hurts me... she has given me her word but it really still hurts and im dead scared...Can you please tell on how to get over this fear because I want to believe in our relationship... every tiny thing that happens I get scared she will leave me...... pls pls pls help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): You're going to make her very upset. What reason has she given you to act like that? If the answer is none, then think about this;
How would you feel if your girlfreind thought you were such an indecent person that you would just leave her for no reason?
That is how you will be making her feel.
If you don't trust her, and she hasn't done anything wrong, then the problem is your own problem and you need to get a grip.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2009): Spend less time worrying about losing her and spend more time on what you can do to make her happy. I promise you will lose her if you continue to hold on too tightly and fret over whether she is going to stay or leave.
Be secure in the fact that she's with you and she's happy. As long as you continue making her happy and being the love of her life you will have nothing to worry about. So focus your energy on how to make relationship grow instead of worrying yourself over losing her.
Good luck!
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