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writes: I've been feeling horrible lately, sometimes I feel like my bf doesn't love me. I told him but he says that he does. He's sweet, maybe not like soap opera guy sweet but he treats me really good so I don't understand why I feel this way. Tho he never puts something sweet for me on msn or any account like other boyfriends does and that kinda hurts me. It makes me wonder if he doesn't wanna let others know he loves me and that makes me feel unloved. Sometimes I really stress about small things and I get jealous easily. Like when he says sweet things I always question if he really does mean it or that he just want to keep me happy. I've always lacked confidence but now it's like too much for me. Sometimes I feel like nobody cares about me and tend to be very pessimistic. It's really confusing me. I love my bf alot and I'm afraid to screw things up by my stupidities. Is there something wrong with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): I'm the same too sometimes. I can admit that I'm extremely insecure and sometimes check my bfs emails just to put my mind at ease. But at the end of the day you just gotta trust him - and believe that people CAN be sincere without an alterior motive. I'm sure he does love you, you just gotta believe that you are worth his love :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): Yip, I'm the same too. If my bf says/does anything 'nice' I get suspicious and dont know if he really means it. I am on anti-depressants but I dont think that is the reason. I think it's just the way I (we) are. Negative, self-doubting, think the other half will disappear with the next 'sane' girl he comes accross. I have been like this for the past 2 years and it gets very tiring. I dont think it will go away. I dont know what we can do about it but you're definitely not alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): you sound like you could be depressed. talk to a dr about it; often people who've been suffering from mild but chronic depression for a long time have a hard time separating what is a chemical imbalance that is easily fixed and what is just an inherent part of who they are. a dr will be able to help sort this out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2006): yes there is!! I'm the same!!
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