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writes: I'm so unlucky with guys.its really getting me down..iv liked this guy for ages, we fell out a few weeks ago, and then he rang me at 5 in the morning the other day to make friends..i thought i had another chance. I emailed one of his mates to try and get close to him, but his mate sent me one back saying 'i know ur just trying to piss my mate off'then the guy i like text me saying 'i know u want to have sex with my mate!!??he then text me yesterday sayin 'lets just leave everything as friends'. i cant stop thinking about him tho. when i go out and get drunk i end up texting him(i know his number off by heart. i feel like we are perfect for each other and i really really cant get him out of my head.im literally obsessed. i spend hours looking at his myspace page. i keep writing down little things about the time we spent together and replaying it over and over in my head. when i go out i just constantly look for him.i dream about him.hes the first thought on my mind when i wake up. WHAT am i gonna do guys.i just cant get over him!!plz help.x x x x x
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (11 February 2007):
Right, what your going to do is just spill. Spill it all to him. Tell him you were never interested in his mate and that you only emailed his mate to get close to him. Just tell him how you feel. But bear in mind, do you even know if he likes you. Because he might not be interested and thats why they said that about them emails. You have to make sure he likes you first .
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reader, baby blue fairy +, writes (11 February 2007):
Wow you seem to really like him! But does he like you? You are coming on too strong. Boys hate this and find themselves insecure. He needs space so give it him! It seems to me your living, breathing and eating everything about him! And sorry but there is more to life than one boy, you need to talk to him tell him that you do like him and make sure you make it clear the thing with his mate was a mistake and its him you want not his mate! Eventually it’ll pass but if he likes you then it’ll be a match made in heaven but you must know this may not be the case if it was it wouldn’t b the real world best of luck sorry for the long answer lol bubi xxx
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (10 February 2007):
 I totally know how you feel, I was obsessed with a guy once the same way how you are now. I too used to spend ages looking at his profile and his pictures and just stare at the screen for ages and imagine all sorts of crazy things! lol. Anyway...You need to tell him that the thing with his mate was a big misunderstanding and that you really like him and not his mate. Email him, send him a message on Myspace and hope he reads it. Then if he still wants to be just friends than I'm afraid you're going to have to accept it and move on. Obsessions do fade out after a while and if you try to keep yourself busy or focus your attention on someone else then it will wear off after a while. Slowly but surely.
But for your peace of mind right now, email him and let him know what the situation is. Explain everything and get things straight.
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