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30-35,
*ove-him
writes:just wondering, when you get married to a lad and they go for a stag do, do they have to go to a stripper, cos when i get engaged i really aint cool wiv my boyfriend seein a stripper? i mean if his mates prepared it id like him to say no and go somewhere else, id b alrite if they just watched women stripp n not be able to touch them bt my mums boyfriend sed if they found the right stripper, then some pay more money and you can actualy sleep with them. i dont like that, am i strange?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 May 2007):
 First thing, I think you have a while before you have to worry about this. Secondly I don't think you should be marrying anyone unless you can categorically trust them to see a stripper without sleeping with her. Thirdly I think the trust has to be there so that you realise that seeing a stripper is just a stag party tradition. It doesn't mean your fiance doesn't love you, it's just his last bit of freedom before he spends the rest of his life with you. It's not weird not to want your future husband to sleep with other people but I think you need to let go a little on your definitions of right and wrong. I hope this doesn't sound patronising but age will probably make you more liberal. At 16 it's easy to have a view of the world that hasn't been challenged by wrong and evil and when you encounter some of these things you find it easier to let the little things, like letting your boyfriend see a stripper go.
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