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writes: Hoping that one of the wonderful agony aunts can give me a hand here. I had a short relationship with a guy last spring.We went out for dinner and he came on really strong in the restaurant no less. I resisted to a point and then we went to a certain point and then stopped. A couple of days later he met me over drinks and told me he was married. He dumped me because he wanted to do the right thing by his wife. We are on a panel together and for some reason I still have a lot of resentment towards him. He feels I have been curt and rough with him also. It is awkward and a big mess. Why is our relationship so turbulant and why has it not evolved into a nice friendly thing. There was a party a couple of weeks ago and the only time he spoke to me was when he came up to argue about something and it was in front of others. I am miserable...help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone for taking the time in the busy holiday season to respond. Hopefully my question and your answers might help others who are in a similar situation. Merry Christmas to you all and a fun and safe New Year. I am a teacher and am looking forward to the two week break and am just packing my downhill skis. Cool Yule all!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone for taking the time in the busy holiday season to respond. Hopefully my question and your answers might help others who are in a similar situation. Merry Christmas to you all and a fun and safe New Year. I am a teacher and am looking forward to the two week break and am just packing my downhill skis. Cool Yule all!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007): Stop letting him pick on you. Next time he has the audacity to be rude to you no matter whether its in front of other or not, STOP him immediately. Tell him to contain himself and to never be disrespectful to you again. Don't let him get away with it cause he is going to keep doing it.
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reader, kenny +, writes (22 December 2007):
Think of it this way, you had a lucky escape here. Invariably there is never a happy ending when seeing or having an affair with a married guy. Ultimately they will never leave their wives, so if it did carry on he would only be seeing you when he can sucessfully sneak away. I would forget about this guy, for its only seems to be bringing you pain and heartache. Cut all ties and move on, this thing will always be running into a cul-de-sac. Move on and find someone who is single and gives you the love and respect that you so rightly deserve. There are good single guys out there, so pick youself up, dust your self down and get on with your life.
Good luck & merry Christmas x
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