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female
age
41-50,
*elem lee
writes:I am married to my ex girl friend's small sister and have two kids but strongly desire my ex girl friend, her big sister who is also married and has her own kids. How can I get over the desire or get her to bed ?
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reader, Fionnlagh  +, writes (30 December 2010):
 Think of the consequences. For everyone.
Sometimes we have to bite the bullet and hold onto our deep emotions, on the inside.
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reader, pelem lee +, writes (26 December 2010):
pelem lee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the good answer but seeing her as my ex girl friend big sister of my wife is killing me.
Pelem lee
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reader, Fionnlagh +, writes (26 December 2010):
I think you are letting your feelings cloud your better judgment. Your life is devoted to your wife and your children, NOT to another woman.
I think you need to be strong and fight your thoughts of adultery, for your children's sake at least. What kind of role model do you want to be, for them?
Are you a good husband and a good father, or just another guy that can’t control himself? I don’t think it’s uncommon to think of other people sexually, but to act on that alone and against what is truly right, would be a very bad thing.
Be strong and love the life you have made for yourself.
You should make an effort to spend more time with your wife. Be intimate with her again.
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