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writes: Well, i have been in love with my parnters friend really from the fist moment I set eyes on him a good 10 years ago. He is always nice to me and realises how I am feeling and that my husband could treat me better. Says things like shouldn't of married him. we flit quite a bit but we never kiss when he leaves as I do with other males. He will compliment me and there is this feeling between us. I don;t think I am imagining it but I have not had much experience in these things. It's driving me crazy, should I try and broach the subject and risk losing what I have got although he probably wouldn't tell him as he has kept secrects from him before for me. Help
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reader, lucy267  +, writes (23 April 2006):
 i know exactly how you feel as i am going through the same,You don't say if you love your husband? Do you?why did you marry and is that reason still there?i know it can be difficult but you need to find out if your friend is seriously interested atall before you risk everything .it sounds like he is..but make sure first otherwise you could be left with no-one..feel free to pm me if you would like to .I hope things work out for you..
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reader, eddie  +, writes (22 April 2006):
 You're already on the road to cheating. In a big way. Why don't you concentrate on your marriage and fix that. If this other guy knows how you're feeling, it's only because you gave him a signal.
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (22 April 2006):
 Cheating is cheating! If you don't want to be married then talk to a lawyer. DO NOT CHEAT! Do not use this guy as an excuse to leave your marriage, do it yourself on your own.
When you're free then approach the subject of dating with any man you want, not before.
If it is not worth the risk, then remove yourself from the temptation.
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