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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:okay. I am in love with a guy that has been giving me mixed signals. Last week, my friend texted him and he ended up asking for my number. My friend told me and then he texted me. We just had a friendly conversation. Then the next day, there was a dance and he asked me to slow dance. He hugged me afterward and then him, my friend, and me talked for a little. But after that, he wouldn't talk to me the rest of the time. The next Monday, I decided to just smile at him and say hey and not pressure him. I tried texting him too. He didn't reply. I didn't text him again until Wednesday, and he finally replied. We only talked for a little bit though. Okay then the next day, it slipped out that he was going to ask someone out. The thing was, he wouldn't say who. Well, he didn't that day, but that night at a football game he asked out some ugly freak whose personality was just so dull. The reason I like him is because he is just super HOT, sweet, and VERY SMART!!!! I just don't know what to do now that he has a girlfriend and all, but I have noticed that they don't talk much at all so...
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (30 October 2010):
 So....nothing.
I say it often here on Dear Cupid but one more time can't hurt : mixed signals= no signals.
When the signals are mixed, the signaler is lukewarm, undecided, or simply killing time ( and wasting your time ).
If a person is really into you, the signal will be clear , readable and consistent,(also in case of shy people ).
In your case then, I am afraid that it's just wishful thinking that makes you read his signals as mixed, - in fact I'd say he made pretty clear that he is not interested.
Don't feel bad and don't get stuck on this particular guy- plenty of other fish in the sea.
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