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writes:whats it mean when I remember everything she has ever said done or worn when I talk to her. 215 days ago today is the day I met this girl and for 215 days she has been driving me crazy in im not so sure a good way. I like her so what she knows it and doesn't seem to be bothered by it so its not a problem. My question is I know love does strange things but honestly Im not the best student I can't just look at something or hear it once then remember it but when it comes to this girl I remember everything. the clothes she wore what she said to me he smile pretty much everything. why is it just her that this happens with and is it alright to tell her this I feel weird that I remember all of this but I have asked some other girls I know and they think its really sweet. I read somewhere people were saying things you may not find important or meaningful mean everything to me. so she might not remember things I do but for some reason it just sticks for me when I talk to her. like the date we met it shouldn't have meant anything people remember anniversaries because they started dating or got married or engaged. I remember where we were standing when I said hi to her and the day. I also read that it means that I really care for her... please help thank you for kind words
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): yes, it does sound like you are obsessed with her. Obsessive love is a well defined type of love, and well described in ancient Greek texts. So you are one of many to experience such love. It's not a bad thing, as long as it does not take over your life. . Yes, it may be true love on your part. Such love often happens when the object of your love is very important to you. I do hope your love is genuinely reciprocated. If it is not please re focus yourself on other things. But to insulate you from hurt in the future perhaps also multi-upgrade your life so that you can turn your mind to other things to love, besides just her. Join a debating team, do some volunteer work. Raise money for a charity you think does good things in the area where you live. You have much to look forward to in life. And keep trying with your studies. I recommend a series of cards for learning, where you write down key concepts and key facts. Then you can use them for revising as memory jogs. I can't ''justt remember'' either.
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