I am in college, want to have a relationship with a girl, but have never approached one, what do I do to start a conversation, get their number, my confidence needs building up, please help??

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Question - (25 August 2008)

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A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am a good looking guy aged 17 and half.I have been approached by 10 girls in the last year(I would consider myself lucky here) but i didn't date or go out with them and in fact refused all of them because I knew I will get into a relationship only during my graduating years.Now that I am in a good university i want to get intoa relationship.BUT I dont have any confidence in me as i've never aproached any girl.How do I get their numbers? what will be thier reacion when i ask them?HelP

thanks(sry 4 this large question)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008):

You can start by talking about something you might have in common with the girl. When you see a girl you like walk past her and say "Hi" or "What's up"?. The next time you see her say hi and start talking about her. Ask her a question pertaining to her life.

If you were REALLY approached by that many girls you should not have to do that much talking in the first place. They will talk to you. It sounds like they are eager to meet you.

But I don't think you are being truthful about so many girls approaching you. Lying makes you seem fake, insecure and weak so don't do it. God Bless

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