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writes: The father of child has custody of my child, and i get to she her every other saturday (as painful as it is to say.)well me, my other daughter and fiance have moved since that court day which was 6 days ago. He says i have to give him address even though we live 10mins from him. But i dont want to to avoid problems with my mom since he still talks to her and other horrible situations. Is there a way to keep him from gettin my new address or do i have to give it to him?
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reader, brovers +, writes (6 December 2009):
i am writing from experience , you dont have to give an address if you feel it will give you problems ie affraid he will come round and cause trouble,but some courts will ask you to , as long as the child is picked up ok and not harmed you wont have to, but he can get a court to give it to him if he thinks you will run away with your child , hope i have helped , good luck
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (6 December 2009):
If your child's father has custody of the child you share, then i cannot understand why you wouldnt want him to be able to contact you in the case of an emergency.
But my personal feelings aside, you need to contact your local court, the one that awarded him custody and ask them if there were court orders made that you need to follow, and ask them to explain to them what you have to do to comply with the courts requests. If you dont understand first off, tell them, and ask them if they can reword it for you. it is very important that you do this, as your actions now could either smooth your path or create problems for you further down the track.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (6 December 2009):
I think it's in the best interest of the child for the custodial parent to know where the non-custodial parent lives. If the situation were reversed, I'm sure you would want access to the same information.
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