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41-50,
*rcada
writes:Hi, I have posted on here before and had some great advice. Please could anyone give me some advice on my current situation.Ok, here goes....My ex walked out on me and our 4 month old son, this was 2 and a half months ago. At first I begged him to come back which I think pushed him away even further!I have been attending counselling which has helped alot. I have 2 children from a previous relationship and up untill last night my ex had'nt seen them. This was because I was too heartbroken to deal with it. I couldn't face seeing my ex so we had an arrangement that he picked my son up from my sisters, so I hadn't seen my ex for 2 months.Anyway I texted my ex and told him he could collect our son from my house and stay for an hour and see the kids, he was delighted. When he came round I told him I would pop out for an hour. When I got back he asked if he could stay a bit longer cos our son was asleep and he didnt want to wake him. I acted quite cool but dignified. He kept trying to talk to me and was looking at me alot, I found it difficult to keep eye contact with him as Im still in love with him.After he left he thanked me and asked if he could see the kids regularly. I said yes but told him I found it difficult seeing him. He said " I know what you mean, its hard for me too"My question is, how will I know if my ex wants me back? He has low self esteem and I know if he wanted me back he wouldt act on it. He may well just want to be friends and nothing more and I dont want to be knocked back again by him.I am hoping we will get back together, should I just give him more time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): I think if you are currently in therapy that you should bring this up with your therapist as he knows you best and your situation with this man. I think any advice here would be interupting your therapy and the work that you are doing there. I think you are wishing something that may not be there except for the concern of a father for his child. Talk to your therapist.
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