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writes:It is a person I used to work with.We got along fine at work, we would chat comfortably amongst each other. I asked her out a few times, I tried to be really casual about it. The first time I asked, we talked about what we were going to do on Friday, I said that I was going to the movies and she was welcome to come with me if she wanted, she said she'd be busy that day, but she would have if she wasn't, and the some time later about a week or two later, I asked her if she would like to go to the plant store with me because I was going later that week and it would have been neat if she went with me. She didn't respond when I asked her that though. she just sort of stared at me for a few seconds not angry or anything just kind of looked at me and I kind of changed the subject and went home becaue it was the end of the day, and she wished me well. She recently quit because she's going to be moving in a few months. I told her that I enjoyed working with her and that I was going to miss her. I was pretty much saying my goodbyes because I figured she was probably going to leave town and I wouldn't see her anymore. I have her phone number and she told me to keep in contact and that we could get together sometime when she left that day, she said "see you later" instead of good bye.We talked over text message a little and I asked her out to a movie with me. But she never responded, I called her a few days after, but she didn't pick up.I'm not trying to jump to conclusions, because I know people get tied up and I'm not really itching to always hear from her right away or anything, but I'm not sure if she's interested in me or if she's just being nice to me. Should I just stop trying to get her to go out with me? or should I keep trying?What do you all think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank for the response. Maybe I'll just except it as is, I continue to try and talk throught text messages and if she never responds, then i'll just stop.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 April 2012):
 She is interested in hearing from you, and not actually going out with you. Her actions seems to be calling, keep trying, keep trying. I am not too sure if she is being nice to you. Not responding and not picking up certainly is not nice. Some people are afraid of disappointing others so not responding means no I can't go. They don't know this comes off as ignoring you. I think you should have told her let me know when you are settled in a new city then the ball is in her court.
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