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writes:OK, so 1 of my best friends have really liked me for a long time now. When I'm around her, I sometimes get feelings for her too. When she told me thet she had a crush on me, I thought nothing of it, until last week when she said it had progressed in to more.Shes 9 yrs older than me, and I really don't want anything to happen, until we are sitting next to each other, then i start to get all these thoughts about her. I've never felt anything towards another woman before and I'm really confused.Please could you give me some advise on what to do!thanks x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks for your help guy's. iv told her that nothing will ever happen betwenn us because there is that risk of loosing our freindship and plus she went and slept with one of her family members which in my books is completly wrong with out question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): Theres no easy answer to that im afraid. Im in exactly the same situation as your friend. Id like to say go with your heart but then you are very young, and you could end up losing your friendship. But then on the other hand you may wonder why you let the opportunity slip, you could be confused about your sexuality. Also just want to say there is nothing wrong with having feelings for someone of the same sex. Sleep on it for a while its early days yet you may feel different in a few weeks time. Sorry i dont know what else to say. Hope ive helped well a little anyway.
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (5 February 2008):
 I gave you the wrong advise, I failed to notice your age and gender.
I cannot advise on those kind of feelings for someone of the same gender, since I have never been there.
Sorry.
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (5 February 2008):
My boyfriend is 12 yrs younger than me, and we have been together for 3 yrs now, and still going strong! At first I felt insecure because of the age difference, but through his continuing reassurances, I have finally gotten past it.
If the age difference is worrying you, don't let it. There are plenty of men out there who have an older significant other. In this day and age, it is becoming the 'Norm.'
Don't fight your feelings for her, because if you do, you may be passing up the 'Love of your Life'
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