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female
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36-40,
*aye-mous
writes:me and my boyfriend hav been together about six months and i love him with all my heart, when we got together he stayed round his ex girlfriends, they both had there dads die an she was upset he was drunk, recently she has been gettin in contact alot and it hurts me so bad, i am so depressed. i love him and want to be with him how can i stop myself feeling so threatened by his ex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007): i agree with the other replies.his days of compassion must be at an end now and you must confront him on this albeit calmly.spell it out in black and white.they were there for each other at a horrible time.explain that you understand how comforting it must have been but now its eating into your relationship and you want him to cool it.gook luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): Hi faye-mousDoes your boyfriend know how you are feeling? If not I think it would be helpful to talk to him and see what he has to say. I don't think you should give him an ultimatum, rather explain your feelings calmly. Your boyfriend should attend to your needs by putting your feelings first and ensuring that you no longer feel threatened by his ex. Maybe he will do this by not seeing her anymore, or maybe it'll be by reassuring you she is a friend and spending more time showing that you are most special to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): Ask him just what is going on? They should of got of the deaths by now. Tell him exactly how you feel. Let him know that you are not happy and if he wants to keep you in his life then he will have to push her further into the background.
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