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writes: So I'll get straight to the point...I met this chick on snapchat...I tell her everything and she tells me everything...well we have known each other two months but we talked everyday all day even give the kiss emoji with heart when we went to bed...well I have a boyfriend and she has a girlfriend..she has been with her 5 years...I am falling for her hard.. Well I have told her twice that we can't talk no more because I like her too much...but she tells me she likes me too much as a friend and I can't just up and stop talking to her...but when I tell her to come meet me she says her gir will have to come too.. Why won't she just stop talking to me..she said the other week she needs me in her life and I better never tell her I'm not going to talk to her no more..I fee like she secretly likes me too..but can't say it...or is in denial...or maybe she just likes the attention? She found me on Facebook and everything...well now her girlfriend is staying at her house for two weeks and it's completely different..like the other night she told me to"stay cool" before bed like wtf? Part of me wants to just cut her off talking to but the other part of me can't..I do like her a lot we have even talked on video chat a couple of times I like her so much..should I stop talking to her?
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reader, llifton  +, writes (13 August 2016):
 Sounds like she likes the attention she's getting from you. I would totally back off. I know that's easier said than done, but in the end it's for the best. She's dragging you along.
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reader, Myau  +, writes (11 August 2016):
 This is what I call a "loose, loose" situation.
You can continue to make a fool of yourself or accept the reality of the situation.
Ditch the girl, she isn't interested in you and since he clearly means nothing to you, ditch your boyfriend too.
Now you will be free so you can meet someone you want to be with.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (11 August 2016):
 The thing you have a problem with - and it's not uncommon - is faithfulness and honesty. If you can sort that out then your problems will be far fewer.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (11 August 2016):
 In a word, yes. She has a different agenda to you. You see some sort of romantic future with this girl, while she sees you as a friend. You are going to end up getting hurt. She has made it plain that her loyalties lie with her girlfriend, as they should. Where is your boyfriend in all this? Does he not deserve some loyalty and consideration? If you don't love him, end the relationship rather than trying to find someone to cheat with.
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