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female
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51-59,
*oosingmymind
writes:My wife and I have been together for almost 13 years. We married 2 years ago. My issue is the fact that the relationship is so onesided. I am expected to conduct myself a certain way but the rules do not apply to her. I am a clean freak and she is a huge slob. She constantly lies to me about the work she does around our home(little or none but tells me she does so much) she acts like I am supposed to believe the lies. i am constantly questioning my sanity becasue she is always making up excuses for her inappropriate behavior. SHe is rude, crude and sometimes, disgusting. She refuses to "clean up" either personally or metaphorically. She will not take responsibility for anything and I can not depend on her. I do not know why I stay but I do. What the hell is wrong with me??? How can I prove the lies??? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 February 2010):
Move on, move on, move on. Seriously, why be unhappy with someone like this when there is clearly a better one out there.
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female
reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 Oh doll I feel for you I had a boyfriend like that once. I was with him for nearly 4 years and although I was very happy with him in the beginning by the end of it I was an emotionally scarred wreak. I don't want to tell you what to do here because the answer will come from within when you are ready as it did for me. I just wanted to say I understand how you feel and am thinking of you. Be kind to YOU and spend lots of time thinking about what makes YOU happy. Your solution will come I promise.
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