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writes:i am married but abroad away from spouse.i am feeling frustrated as i have not been able to have an intercourse and even i have not masterbated and have not had wet dream even for the last 3 months.how do i get relaxed,when i do not want to masterbate and do not want to have an illegal affairs.please help me
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reader, lovetokissyou  +, writes (9 March 2010):
find something that will keep you bussy, play pool cards or call your wife and talk to her , Im sure she misses you allso, but you must find something to keep your mind away from something that you will regret doing. my I ask why your away from your wife and for how long you will be apart. just keep bussy you will see this through.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Focus on those things that you like to do when you are free.
An empty mind is a devil's workshop. When your mind is preoccupied with other things, you will not think of sex.
Go out and seek your friends and have a good time.
If it does not work , focus on God and read your Koran (If you are a Muslim)or Bible.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 I'm curious as to why you don't want to masturbate? Do you consider it cheating? Or does your wife consider it cheating?
Either way, it isn't cheating because there's only you involved. You can't cheat on her with yourself...
If you physically do not like masturbating, then just think of things that turn you on? Think of your wife? I don't know. I've never known of someone to not like masturbating, but wanting to release sexual tension. What other options do you have? Not many.
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reader, ethan18  +, writes (7 March 2010):
ok this is what you need to do....MASTERATE!!!!!! its normal to masterbate but since you don't want to, you could buy a sex toy called a 'flashlight'. it has a pussy like top, and feels sorta real.
bottom line is... you need to do something about not wanting to masterbate if you dont want to cheat, or haven't had any wet dreams. good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): WHy not masturbate? Do it. It's not healthy to not have such a sexual relief for too long. It actually IS bad to your health. If you don't want to cheat, then it's your only option. There's no shame in doing it.
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (7 March 2010):
 you need an outlet for your sexual energy (as you probably already know). You could try writing letters to your wife about things that are best left only said between a man and his wife.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): Wank away man. You're a dude and you got your needs. First it's better than cheating on her and if you dont temptation can start getting bigger. Maybe do some internet sex with her?
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