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writes:So there's this girl...She's amazing, ive known her for 2 years. I'm a freshmen we met in the begininng of 8th grade and we went out 3 times in 8th grade but we broke up everytime 1) too clingy,2)didnt feel rite 3)I blamed her about why we werent workin out, for example, i would say that she flirted with alot of guys. I did blame her for stuff i realize all this stuff now I still like her there hasnt been 1 day since we first met that i didnt like her even if she did something horrible to me i still liked her, i dunno why? For the 2 years we known each other there's always a thing between us. If shes get a bf then me and her are still close an hang out and do stuff(nothing really bad) but she stil likes me she even told me that she compares me to all her bf's is that bad? It could really good and we're bout to go out again but something always stops it. Something stupid like her best friend tells her not to or she says it will b like 8th grade again. I DUNNO i jus wanna be with her, this is like a dry spot, well now we are in a dry spot again i hate these because im pretty sure she likes another guy but im always the re-bound guy, is it bad to be it? I wanna be the permenant guy, i want out of this dry spot. So can someone plz help me! please! I just want her.
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reader, Bella55  +, writes (8 March 2007):
Sounds like you ruined it the first time round. I think she is protecting herself from you. Her friends are interfering and maybe she was so into you the first time round that you hurt her quite badly, her friends are prob trying to protect her too. The only thing you can really do, is get her alone and apoligise for what you did in the past, and that you have realised that you have more feelings for her than you thought. Ask her for that 2nd chance, tell her you want to make her happy. Be nice to her friends, apoligise to them too if you have to, let them know that you made a mistake and that u need them to support you. Afterall we all deserve 2nd chances, right?
Be genuine.
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