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writes:To anyone,I am 15 to and 5,9 and 180 pounds brown hair hazel eyes and glasses.I go to church about 4 times a week.I belive in proper manners and to be polite to every one around you.In this day and age not many girls like a guy like me I dont drink smoke or do drugs.I am not one to pick a fight.But there is a girl I like she is nice and a well behaived girl.This guy I know came and asked her out and he asked good when he's aroud her but when I see him at school he act like she is just a piece of meat and she is much much more.I really like her and I want to stand up to him but I am afriad of being jumped by his friends and him.But I love her and cant see her being treated this way what should I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2007): this isnt an answer to your question but thought you'd like 2 know,women do like men like you! bad boys are fun but the novelty soon wears off. Women ned a good honest respectfull man,dont change who you are and dont let this bloke get to you he sounds like a pathetic waster. love x
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reader, aunty t +, writes (8 March 2007):
 I dont think that you should get involved with this guy as you will come out worse. She will realise eventually what he is really like. It is hard to see someone else being treated in this way but really it is not up to you to interfere. This girl may not thank you for it and so you will lose any chance of getting to know her. Have you ever tried speaking to this girl maybe you could try and strike up a friendship with her and be there for her if things go wrong with this other boy. You sound like a very nice young man with strong values. Unfortunately there are not too many like you out there and sometimes you have to let people work things out for themselves.
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reader, Bella55  +, writes (8 March 2007):
Unfortunatley guys like this are the way they are because of their upbringing. I wouldnt confront him about it as he will not change for you, for her or for anyone else. Men like this learn the hard way after many years, and most of them dont ever learn. Maybe you should befriend her, and let your friendship grow to a point where you can both confide in each other. I am sure she will see what a nice guy you are, and see the light. No woman likes to be treated like that, but they dont know the way theyve been treated and often find out in hurtful ways. It wont last long, believe me, sooner or later his true colours will come out. In the mean time, try to be helpful to her, she might need a shoulder to cry on.
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