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writes:hi i see so many girls my age and younger then me with boyfreinds and i missed out all along the way because i was getting rejected.by guys who had girlfreinds in the past and know how to get girlfreinds and kow how to kiss and know how to get what they want.next year will anotheryear i,ll miss out on because i am wlays getting rejected.i have no clue and i really mad at seen guys i like rejected when i train with who get himself a new girlreind.which is really unfair.i have never experence what its like to have a boyfreind and to be kissed.its so hurtful and painful why he is the one who rejected me ends up happy and me who was ends up alone and still suffer the effects of rejction is very unfair after 2 yaers i am still angry at that prick .its me who should have boyfriend and be happy and he should be the one alone but no it never works that way.its has to be me who suffers and ends up alone.what its the point i am too old for 1st boyfreind at 29 yaers old .i am afraid to bother any more becasue i,ll end up rejected as sure as i am written this letter.oh he doesn,t care he found love and he happy but the suffer like me doesn,t get enough puishment and its has to be long lasting as well.why is life like this Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 Do you have any good girlfriends? Any close friends whose opinion you value and who you can trust?
I think it's time that you sit yourself down and assess why you are where you are. Ask your girlfriends what your strong points are and where you could use improvement.
One thing I have to say is that you are very focused on something that happened two years ago. It's time to move on; if you are stuck, and so bitter and unhappy as your post seems to indicate, you need to get some counseling.
You're asking one of the big questions, "why is life like this?" I have no idea why life can be so unfair. It just is. The way through it is figuring out how to do the best you can with what you've got.
So forget what HE is doing and focus on what YOU can be doing. If you live in the past, you'll never make your own new future. Okay?
Take care.
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (7 December 2008):
hiyah its not just your life i think its life in general!it sometimes works like that, the ones that hurt us are the ones who get it all and seem to always take it all along the way. its out of your control though, the only thing you can do is sort the way your future is going to be. dont live in the past, rejection is hard but its something you should take,accept and move on and change for the future, not something you remain dwelling on as it turns you bitter and going nowhere.
your right to be angry at the past but 2 years on it could be affecting why you are where you are. your so focused on what you havent got and what everyone around you has got, its alomst like your missing the point of a progressing future.
you need to become someone and find that someone for yourself, nobodys perfect and have fun in finding him. dont be scard of rejection or you will never get anywhere, dont be too forward take it slow and when you thinks ready go in for it. try finng a guy mate first, get to know the guy and then move on to what could be.
your in a good position, your in the dating line and as ive said before i know its cheesey but i believe there is that someone out there for everyone, its just finding him but once youve got him its a feeling nobody can take aways from you and something only you experiance so go on and find it! and bloody enjoy it! best of luck hun i hope all works out for you xxx make your future (prove the prick wrong!)
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