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writes:i am 22 and in a relationship for 2 years now. We are in the same college and see each other very often. But we never really hang out elsewhere. We both really want to but my mom doesn't know about this relation and something bad happened with my previous relationship my mum knew about it but i was with him and people found out all my relatives etc. and it turned out very badly. So i turn down my bf everytime he understands but at the same time is frustrated. I kind of feel i have taken him from granted for the same reason. I want to give him a real date but i am confused bcoz of my past experience.. plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (20 March 2013):
 Well if ur not ready to share this with your mom yet that's completely fine for now OP, cause your just going on a date with a guy,your 22 you can make your own decisions,you know what's right and wrong,you know your limits..when you think the relationship is getting serious you can talk to your mom about it,for now its just a date,why put soo much pressure on you for the guy just wants a 'date'..don't think too much about it OP,look your best and go enjoy your date!keep us posted good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI do want to share it with my Mom but I can’t at the moment... and yes i think i needed to hear this.I have to let go of this fear, and live my life. My boyfriend says that every time I refuse him he won’t ask me to go out anymore. If I am ready I have to tell him... So now I'll do the honours, and make him happy. Thank you so much :)
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reader, cute angel +, writes (19 March 2013):
OP,
Your past is definitely affecting your future,I don't know what happened in your previous relationship but you have to let go if you want to build a new relationship,because right now your boyfriend is bearing the brunt and that's unfair to him!
I see in india,it isn't that easy to date,marriages etc!and I don't think you can talk to ur parents about ur boyfriend is it?
I can understand your boyfriend would want a real date,how about you give him one than worrying soo much about ur past!you can't be scared all your life now can you, 'live a little'..take a risk,be brave! And how hard would it be to just go on one date,pick a nice restaurant go for lunch\dinner..you can do this OP good luck x
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