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writes:Hi, I am a virgin guy 24 years old. I was on a trip few months back to some outstation.It was a group of some people so it was a nice time.We all slept in a single big room each time. I usually sleep wearing a payjama without underwears. So one day while I was sleeping something happened to women sleeping besides me aged around 45. she was wearing Tshirts and lowers. I dont now what happened she was a bit restless that wake me a bit somewhat. Then she suddenly removed her lower and panty downwards and pushed forwards towards me. As my payjama was loosely knot my penis was somewhat exposed so as she pushed it touched the outer skin of her private part. I got annoyed andpushed her back.. Then I went somewhere else.. But the thought of her vaginal part touching my penis irritates me an maes me restless. What should I do now;;; I am a virgin so this type of thing bother me more...what should i do...
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (23 March 2009):
IF i heard this story when i was a horny teen, my response would have been "DUDE your totally gay! i Would've nailed that old lady!" anyway... you have a right to be upset. how could she push up on you like that! you don't even know her! she could have STD's or something. Yuck!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 It makes perfect sense that this would bother you.
To all readers, reverse the genders in this story. See the picture now?
It sounds to me that you feel violated, and rightly so. There was no consent.
You should not have to be sexual with anyone that you do not feel sexual towards. She took advantage of the fact that you were not able to give consent.
You got up, and left the room.
The reason that others will not support your decision is that men are under the stigma of always being sex horn-dogs that will take sex no matter the source. It makes it more difficult for an adult male virgin who is not actually interested in sex, as this is not the norm.
I did a 4 CD program on adult male virgins, and how they are treated and mistreated. You can listen to full previews at http://www.franktalks.com
But you do need to be mature and grow up about one thing. The fact that you would knowing sleep in the same place where men and women sleep together and not expect that someone (man or woman) is going to try to have sex with someone is just immature. This is one of the challenges of adult male virgins. For people that have had sex, they know the reality of the possibility. For the adult male virgin, you still view it as only a "sleep over". Do you put yourself in these kind of situations in the future if you can not handle the adult activity that is likely to occur.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 do you not want to lose yor virginity?x
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