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writes:I'm living in a house for college with a woman and her daughter. there is two more students here a boy and a girl but i feel that the daughter prefers the other female student's company than mine. I'm easy to talk to and genuinly nice and not a bitch. the daughter is an attention seeker and always brings drama on herself. she's lazy and doesnt want to work, she dropped out of college this year and had problems with her current and previous boyfriend and the current guy ended up telling his friends she was the local bike that everyone has had a go at. my housemates (the students) are lovely and we get along no problem but they arent as experienced with people like her and tend to push overs. I dont know what to do about the current situation. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (8 October 2012):
 Ok I'm also not sure what's going on... you said:
" i feel that the daughter prefers the other female student's company than mine."
and this is a problem? why is this a problem? does the daughter need to like you best for a reason?
then you say: "we get along no problem but they arent as experienced with people like her and tend to push overs. I dont know what to do about the current situation. "
so I am going to guess that your concern is that the daughter who you don't like or respect (based on your comments about her) is not treating your housemates properly?
and this is your concern and problem why?
to be honest the only thing you have to worry about is your interaction with others... not others interactions with others... unless it directly affects you....
does how this daughter, that you don't like or respect treat your housemates, that you like, hurt or harm you in any way other than your feelings?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2012): Yeah I don't get the problem either. I don't see what you have to "deal with". Daughter is a bitch so you just keep her sweet, keep your nose out of her affairs, pay your rent and get on with your college work.
It's not your job to deal with anything or sort anything out. Just take care of yourself and do your best to keep everyone on good terms with you, let everyone else take care of themselves and don't take sides.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (8 October 2012):
 I am not sure what your situation is as you really don't come right out and say it. I think we need some more information from you. Are you saying the daughter is causing issues among you and your house mates?
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