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writes:I am female thirty year old and never had an orgasm. What can I do to achieve an orgasm? Are there any gadget or products I can buy to aid in this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): KY makes a wonderful female sexual enhancement gel. It's a fantastic help.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (8 July 2010):
 It's not uncommon..........you need to find a relationship with someone who makes you feel safe and loved as how we feel about ourselves and the relationships we are in are very much linked to physical pleasure and the ability to let go enough to reach orgasm. It helps also if your man knows hopw to push the right buttons to make you feel good in bed:)
Hope this helps a bit hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): Oh dear. Well, what turns you on the most sexually? What do you feel? Orgasms are about 90% mentally induced. You need to explore your anatomy thoroughly to knwo what makes you come. Toys help, but fingers are a better start. I know from expereince that about half my partners came through vaginal stimulation, others only from clitoral...every woman has subtle differences in speed, intensity, angle, pressure, etc that get tehm off. you need to find the right combination of all those, and amp up the mental stimulation through porn or fantasy or whatever and work it.
Anyway, that's a guys perspective. But a guy who is preoccupied with the female orgasm and giving women pleasure.
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