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writes:Hey Everyone.....! Please help!I’m a 29 year old man and I’m in love with an 18 years old girl! She is 11 years younger than me!!!!! It was she that liked me at first and always very nice with me. She used to say, "Everything to do for you is a pleasure of my life" At first i didn’t want to suffer her and i thought it is impossible, but now its is about 8 months that she has never given up! i thought I’m too old for her! But she is not like any other 18 year girls, she always acts and talk like a 25 years old girl! To be honest, i like her too, she is very pretty and a good girl, but i never shared my feelings with her till one month ago! Now she knows about my feelings too and she said wait her for 5 years, until she finishes her higher studies and we will be together then! What should i do????Is it possible for us to be together? I don’t regret to wait for 5 years but i don’t want to suffer because of love, cause i already suffered once with my ex-girlfriend! thanks in advance! Himalaya Love
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 IF she was 28 and you were 39 I'd be more inclined to be very positive... but a lot can change in 5 years at 18
I am 13 years older than my partner... and as the younger partner he is more fine with it than I am....
tread carefully as while she's legally an adult, she's got a lot of growing up to do... but don't say NO just because of of her age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for your advances and i agree with you two, especially the last one, others will say something about us, because our society is very stirck with these kind of things! There is also one thing that i'mm worrying about, like you said, she is young and her mind might be very easy to change! But during the last few months, she her changed her mind, i even used to say that we are not going to contact anymore but still she dont care about it, so i trust her but still worrying............! thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2012): She's 18... is that not the age by which almost all societies consider you to be an adult, capable of making adult decisions and navigating adult relationships.
If you guys love each other, go for it. What matter it how other people view it. Legally they can do nothing.
Flynn 24
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