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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Thank you to all the help I've received here on dearcupid!I posted this question on Sunday, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-suggest-our-st-valentines-day-outing.html#provide_answerThe lady in question accepted!Now I need to know what to do, 3rd date, i was thinking we drink a bottle or 2 of wine in a bar/cafe, nothing fancy, i get a very small valentines card seeing as we are just friends so far, and that's it.Is that good enough? Also any tips for what to do and how to get me chatting and more flirty with her? I have 0% ambition of sleeping with her yet, although a kiss won't do any harm tomorrow!We may meet in the afternoon,so please flood answers in ASAP!Thanks once again good folks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2012): A card and a single red rose.....that will show your interested.
Without being too gropey just touch her arm,make alot of eye contact,ask her questions about her life,likes,dislikes and listen to her answers.No need to bombard her,but show interest in getting to know her.Share a funny story or two with her, we all like to laugh
If it is an afternoon date and you don't have to go to work afterwards then a wine bar is fine - a walk afterwards holding hands?
The kiss is for when you part company.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (14 February 2012):
 If you like this girl and want a relationship with her, then I'd go the extra mile. However if your ok with friends then do what you suggested.
How about going to a winery? Wine tasting with some cheese, grapes, sliced apples for an appetizer. Even let her order from their chic little lunch menu. A bar/cafe is ok, but not very romantic. Forget the little card and get her a nice little bouquet of flowers when you go to pick her up, that way she can put them in a vase with water before leaving. A flower is a lovely reminder of you she can smell and look at. Cards get tossed on the table, shoved in handbag and forgotten.
Compliment her on how she looks, be yourself when it comes to conversation, touch her hand, guide her around the winery with your hand placed in the middle of her back...Don't go overboard with the compliments otherwise you'll come on too strong.
A kiss comes at the end of the date, you lean in and take control. Good luck!
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