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writes:i am 16 and i am in love with a 23 year old guy, he is perfect in every single way but he already has a girlfriend, what should i do? i can't get him out of my head and whenever we see each other we always have a really good chat. help! what should i do?
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reader, sprocks  +, writes (9 July 2007):
Well you should probably ask him if he likes u because i am in the same problem and he does like u then u should ask if he condsiders to date u and whatever he says dont be afraid to hear whatever u dont want to hear.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (22 June 2007):
 You do nothing. You are 16. He is 23 and has a girlfriend.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (21 June 2007):
 I'd forget about him and move on. He has a girlfriend and to make a move on will be unfair to her. Plus he may see you as just a freind because of the age gap. It is hard when you fancy someone who is taken and there isn't really much you can do about it.
If you still feel the same way in a couple of years, and he's single then go for it. Just don't hang around waiting for him and not live your life :)
Good Luck!
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (21 June 2007):
 oh hun i have been there im 17 and his 22 but he was single and i was but im the boss daughter and every1 found out so that ruined everythin. so im going to give u the advise that everyone else gave me here. he has a gf whivh i no makes it more fun and romantic but u will have to get over him m sorry to say its going to be hard but u will, just take ur time, talk to him don't ignore him. but DV1 is right if he liked u he would be with u and it is unfair if u guys went out his at an age where he can go to clubs and u can't he can drink and u can't. good luck and u will get there it will be hard but u will get there xxxx
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reader, Donnatella  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Oh ya, been there!
I was 18 and he was 23. I ended up kissing the guy on a night out. I still really liked him and there we would flirt all the time but he always treated my like a bit of a fool. It was a bit insulting in retrospect. He had no intention of breaking up with his girlfriend. I ended up hating him, beacuse he didnt give me enough attention, not that i deserved any. I mistook "perfect in every way" for charm. He was really goodlooking and he made me laugh and Damn he was a good kisser but there was nothing deeper. I never seen him during the day or had a serious conversation with him... and I thought i was in love! What was i thinking?? I hope my experience can shed some light.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (21 June 2007):
 Until you are 18, you shouldn't do a thing. He is also in a relationship,and you need to respect that. If he liked you, he would be with you, and not her. He wants someone older that he can have sex with, not to mention spend his time with. It would be unfair of him to date someone that he can't take anywhere. He'd probably get arrested for rape if he gave in to temptation...
DV1
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